| Dear Prudence Pushing the Wrong Buttons In a live chat, Prudie counsels a widow whose new love has no clue how to please a woman in bed. By Emily Yoffe
Posted Tuesday, Jul 30, 2013, at 10:15 AM ET  Emily Yoffe, aka Dear Prudence, is on Washingtonpost.com weekly to chat live with readers. An edited transcript of the chat is below. (Sign up here to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. Read Prudie's Slate columns here. Send questions to Prudence at prudence@slate.com.) Q. Mature Relationships: I am a widow in her early 60s in a very serious, hopefully permanent, relationship with a kind, caring, successful mid-60s widower who would be ideal except that he is clueless about the female anatomy and how to please it. That his late wife never went down on him in 30-plus years of marriage suggests there was a lack of communication that explains his problem. Although he is unselfish, enthusiastic, and believes he drives me wild, he never finds the target. I am very sexual, orgasmic, and quite experienced, so this lack of knowledge frustrates. To complicate matters, after my husband died, I met two lovers extraordinaire, contemporaries who rocked my world, but have few other redeeming qualities. How do I tell a sincere man that he needs remedial sex school without offending or deflating him? Also, since in my 60s I know I will never find the perfect man, is an occasional tryst with an expert solely for therapeutic purposes justifiable? A: There is a serious disconnection in your description of your lovemaking (or perhaps we should call it stumblebumming) with your beau. If even after 30-plus years of marriage this guy's unacquaintance with the ... To continue reading, click here.
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