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Dear Prudence: Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

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Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places
My wife doesn't want sex frequently, so I visit prostitutes. Should I stop?
By Emily Yoffe
Posted Thursday, Oct 06, 2011, at 02:05 PM ET

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I consider myself a decent man, but for the past year I have been cheating on my wife about twice a month with prostitutes. We've been married for more than a decade and have three young children. Since the beginning of our relationship, my libido has exceeded hers and she frequently refused my overtures. Now we have sex about once a month, only when initiated by her, because I became so resentful about being rebuffed constantly. It's mutually satisfying (she has an orgasm and is not the type to fake it) but bland. Over the years, to increase the likelihood that my wife would be in the mood, I cooked, did chores, and helped as much as possible with child care. She would frequently say she was too tired for sex, although she would not be too tired to stay up late reading or watching TV. We get along reasonably well, and our children are our chief priority, but we are emotionally disconnected. Out of despair and frustration, I saw an escort last year. The thrill of seeing prostitutes and the variation from ...

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Today in Slate: Sarah Palin's Improbable Gift to Women; Plus, Farhad on Steve Jobs

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Moneybox: The Economics of Occupy Wall Street

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The protesters say the top 1 percent of Americans have gotten too rich. Are they right?
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Posted Wednesday, Oct 05, 2011, at 09:32 PM ET

It is not easy to say just what Occupy Wall Street wants; there is no concise list of specific demands. But the gist of the  quickly snowballing movement is clear. Wall Street has not accepted responsibility for its role in the financial crisis and ensuing recession. It has done more harm than good for average citizens and businesses. On top of all that, average Americans are "getting nothing while the other 1 percent is getting everything. We are the 99 percent."

One thing is inarguably true: The 99 percent don't have 99 percent of anything, money-wise, in the United States. But just how bad is the skew toward the top 1 percent?

Let's start with income—the money you make from things like wages, salary, interest payments, and collected rent. According to an analysis (XLS) of Internal Revenue Service data by the economists Thomas Piketty and Emmanuel Saez, the 99 percent account for 79 percent of income in 2008, with the top 1 percent taking the other 21 percent.

"That's not that bad," you might say. "Of course, some people are going to be richer than others." Perhaps. But the 1 percent has been eating a bigger and bigger share of the pie over time. Back in the 1970s, the 99 percent were earning about 90 percent of income, for instance. The top 1 percent of households took a bigger share of overall income in 2007 than they did at any time since 1928.

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How to Upgrade to the Latest iPhone for Free

By Adam Dachis

How to Upgrade to the Latest iPhone for Free

Upgrading to the newest iPhone hardware each year means shelling out $200-$400 (or more if you're not eligible for upgrade pricing). If you want to upgrade but don't have the cash, here's how to sell your old iPhone to cover the cost of the new one and then some.

Why It Works

There's no magic trick here. This is a guide to selling your iPhone to cover the cost of a newer model, if not more--something I've done each time a new iPhone's been released.

The main reason you're able to earn your money back from the sale of a year-old iPhone is because you're selling it without a contract. Buying a new iPhone without a contract would cost upwards of $500, so it's easy to sell your used device for the price you initially paid given that the buyer gets that added bonus. Easy as long as you've taken proper steps ahead of time, that is.

The short version: keep it in good shape and sell it at the right time. Beyond that, there are a lot of things you have to do to make sure your iPhone retains its value for the year you'll have it. In this little guide we'll take a look at the entire process, from when to buy your iPhone to the final sale.

When to Buy

If you were buying a used iPhone from someone you've never met, off of Craigslist or the like, wouldn't you want some sort of guarantee that it's not going to break the next day? Because you're just a person selling your phone online, you can't really offer a proper warranty, and if you sell a year after you bought the phone, your iPhone warranty will have expired. Chances are you've got an iPhone 4 that's out of warranty at this point because Apple took a little longer to release the iPhone 4S.

What are your options? If a year has passed and you didn't buy AppleCare, you basically have two options. You can try to sell without the warranty, which may work just fine or, during the price negotiations you'll likely encounter on some sites, you can offer to split the cost of a third-party warranty (our favorite is SquareTrade). If you've created your own extended warranty fund you can use some of that money to cover the added cost. On the other hand, if you sell your iPhone for enough, you may not have to. Being out of warranty doesn't put you in an ideal situation, but one way or the other you should be able to earn enough to cover the cost of a new one. You probably won't be able to sell your 16GB iPhone 4 for a 64GB iPhone 4S, but you'll at least be able to trade up for the same amount of space.

If you actually are still under warranty, you're in much better shape. All you really need to be able to offer is a few weeks of a warranty, so don't worry if it's about to expire. A few weeks aren't much, but it gives your buyer two things: peace of mind that if it breaks the next day they can get it fixed for free. More importantly, it also gives them the ability to purchase an extended warranty themselves. That added benefit goes a long way and doesn't cost you a thing.


Proper Care for 364 Days

Part of the reason most people buy an iPhone is because it's pretty. Whether or not you're one of those people, you're going to want to maintain its alluring good looks or you're going to have trouble selling it. If you get a small, mostly unnoticeable nick or two you'll be okay. What you want to watch out for are scratches and other ugly blemishes. And, of course, you don't want to drop it and shatter the screen. So how do you keep it safe?


The Case and Protective Film Combo

Buying a case--really anything from a slim, feather case to something bulky and rubberized--goes a long way when paired with protective film. This is generally the option I choose because it's cheap (around $20-25, total, if you look in the right places) and doesn't require much work. You just snap on the case and adhere the protective film. An added benefit of using protective film for the screen is you can get a matte/anti-glare option. These films can be a big pain because you can get dust and air bubbles when applying them. Fortunately most packs come with two so you can screw up once while getting the hang of it. Alternatively, you can buy a Kioky perfect fit applicator to make it easier or just coerce an Apple Store employee into doing it for you. They have more practice and can do it in the repair room in the back of the store. That's about as close as you're going to get to a dust-free environment.

If you do decide to go the case-and-film route, you're going to need to do a little maintenance here and there. Dust somehow finds its way into your tightly sealed case and the phone moves around a bit (even if it doesn't seem like it). This will cause minor scratches. If you have a rubberized case this will happen less, but it's a frequent issue with plastic cases (especially the snap-on, thin-framed "feather" types). Fortunately it's not a big deal. Monthly or bi-monthly, just take the case off and clean it and the back of the phone. Any dust spray will do the trick, but you can just use a damp paper towel if you're short on supplies. Once you're clean, put the case back on and you're good for another month or two.

One last note: the great thing about using protective film is that you can remove it before selling the phone. When you do, the screen looks impossibly clean and unblemished, making the iPhone an easy sell.


Full-Body Protection

There are a few options, like the ZAGG invisibleSHIELD, that cover the entire phone in supposedly impenetrable film. This is probably your best bet for scratch resistance, but it's hard to apply and it's pricier than most protective film you can find online (since it's generally better and definitely more comprehensive). On the plus side, ZAGG has a lot of mall carts that provide free application if you buy it from them. While this isn't going to reduce the price, it'll at least ensure that you get the film on properly (and without bubbles). While protective film may set you back an extra $10 or so, you can always use it as a selling point later.


Packaging and Accessories

Apple's always had some pretty creative packaging, and whether or not you care, a lot of buyers will feel better about their purchase if you keep the box, the manuals, and especially the Apple stickers. If you want to take it a little further, include the unopened power adapter, cable, and headset from your new iPhone with the old model. You can just use the accessories you already have, and it's yet another step in making your used iPhone feel like it's brand new.


Unlocking a Little Bonus

If you want to grab a little cash above and beyond what you could normally ask for, you can go through the trouble to unlock your iPhone. If you're not familiar, unlocking is the process of opening up your iPhone to any carrier. It's a little more in-depth than jailbreaking and requires a bit of work, but unlocking your iPhone with ultrasn0w will allow you to charge more as people who aren't savvy enough to unlock the phone themselves are often willing to pay a little extra for the convenience.

If you decide to go this route, you'll want to be careful about it. It's very important that you explain to the buyer what it means to have an unlocked phone, even if they already know. You don't want an angry buyer who didn't understand that Apple won't fix the phone and that they won't necessarily be able to update to the latest version of iOS--at least not as easily as everyone else. While you can make a little extra money this way, be clear when selling it or you could cause some unwanted trouble for you and your buyer.


Don't Forget to Reset!

Chances are you don't want your precious data in the hands of your buyer, so you have a couple of options. First, you can just do a restore of your phone by plugging it into you computer, clicking Restore in iTunes, and then preventing the phone from syncing back up when it's all done. Alternatively--and this is my preference since it does the same thing and it's faster--is resetting all your iPhone data directly from the phone. To do this, go into Settings on your iPhone, choose Reset, and then tap Reset All Content and Settings. This will fully wipe your phone while still retaining the standard apps (which is great for your buyer for testing purposes).


Making the Sale

Making the sale is easy if your iPhone's in good condition and you kept all of the accessories. All you really have to do is find a buyer and make the sale. While you can use sites like eBay to quickly sell online, you pay a fee. Craigslist costs you nothing to post and claims no fees for your sale, plus you get paid in cash. While most sales on Craigslist will result in less money for you, the iPhone is an exception. For a pristine iPhone, you can expect to make back more than you paid for it--but don't expect to get your set price. People on Craigslist like to haggle, so be sure to set the price about $20-25 higher than what you expect to get for the phone. Most people will lowball you, but they're often willing to pay more. Generally people are willing to pay full price but want to feel like they got a great deal. Price it higher than what you're hoping to get and then you both get what you want.

When posting the ad, don't make it too long. Many Craigslisters won't read it even if it's only a few sentences. Include the important information first: the model of the iPhone, how much storage it has, its body color, that it's in great condition, and that you're selling it because you want to upgrade (as opposed to the buyer's imagined scenario: "there's something wrong with it so they want a new one and they're going to try to screw me over"). You can cover this information in 2-3 sentences. Be sure to say thanks and leave your first name. If you're comfortable providing a phone number, go ahead. If not, you should still be prepared to handle most communication over the phone if you find a buyer that you like.

You will have options, so don't be in a rush to sell. Trust me on this--every time I've sold an old iPhone on Craigslist, I've received at least five offers in the first few minutes. The last time I sold, I posted at 2:00 AM and ended up with around 40 inquiries by morning. When you have a product like this, you're in a good position to pick your buyer. You want to try and pick someone you think you'll get along with. It'll be a better experience for both of you, plus they're more likely to buy from you if they like you. Even buyers you're going to like will most likely email you with questions you've already answered in the listing. Even if you find this frustrating, don't let that slip into your reply. Often buyers did read the listing but want to hear directly from you to them that your iPhone's in good condition.

The most important thing is that you're honest about the condition of the phone. If there is any cosmetic damage that you know of, no matter how minor, tell them. You do not have to include it in the listing but tell them if they ask. Minor cosmetic damage can be hard to describe or even photograph, and it's best to just say that. Let them know that you want to show them. This makes you honest and encourages them to come see the iPhone in person. When you're communicating over the phone or via email, the buyer has to use his or her imagination to decide what the damage looks like. You can be sure that what they imagine is the worst-case scenario. If they come to look at the phone, it will undoubtedly look better in person than it did in their head. That is, of course, if you've been honest with them.

When the actual sale takes place, it's always prudent to count the money. Don't worry about offending the buyer--they should expect you to do this. They'd do this themselves if they were in your shoes. There are nice ways to ask, too. Saying "do you mind if I count it?" allows them to give you permission--which they always will--so there's no real tension in that moment. Once you've made the exchange, you're all set. You've just paid for your iPhone upgrade and maybe even made a little money in the process.


This is just one strategy for one product that's always worked for me. Later in the week we'll take a look at the best ways to sell just about any gadget. If you've got any great strategies for getting a good resale price on your stuff, share 'em in the comments!


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