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Monday, June 11, 2012
Your Head or Your Gut: How to Know Which to Trust and When
June 11th, 2012Top StoryYour Head or Your Gut: How to Know Which to Trust and When
For the most part, we're smart people. Our brains are filled with knowledge and experiences that come into play every day to help us navigate the world. Nonetheless, we frequently examine our past behavior and find problems that are rooted in some incredibly dumb choices—hence the adage "hindsight is 20/20." In the moment, we waste our time or fool ourselves into believing we're making the right decision when we're not. This often occurs because we're trusting our gut when we should be using our head—or vice-versa. If you want your foresight to be a little closer to 20/20, you need to start examining your decision-making process and compensating for your common mistakes. In this post we're going to take a look at how both your head and your gut can work for you and against you, and how to use both to make better choices. Prioritize Your Decisions to Stop Overthinking
If you find yourself wasting time on any regular decisions in your life, just start asking yourself "is this important?" whenever similar circumstances arise. It takes a little practice to get used to, but after a few days you'll remember. You can even put a post-it note on your computer screen to help. Once you start asking that question regularly, and answering it immediately, you'll have trained your brain to stop wasting time on the choices that just don't matter. Know When to Ignore Your Gut
The Solution: You're destined to make bad decisions if you always trust your gut, so you need to learn when to listen and when to ignore it. There are two ways to do this, and both involve developing the habit of asking the right questions—both to yourself and others.
Your gut doesn't stop there. It's capable of screwing you over by causing you to believe you're right when pretty much everyone else can see that you're wrong. This is due to a phenomenon called illusory superiority, which a fancy term to describe how you think you're a lot better than you actually are. Because we all think we're pretty great, and that can't be true 100% of the time, it's better to just assume you're below average. (Derek Sivers, the founder of CD Baby, found this worked great for him.) Doing so will cause you to ask more questions, question yourself when you need to, and listen better to others. This way you can avoid the negative effects of illusory superiority and the problems your gut can cause when it leads you to believe you're right at the wrong time. Photos by Sedova Elena (Shutterstock), Stocklite (Shutterstock), and Lucie Lang (Shutterstock). |
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27 of the Best Video Game Ideas from E3
June 11th, 2012Top Story27 of the Best Video Game Ideas from E3
If you knew where to look, played the games that were there and talked to enough game creators, you could find plenty of signs that video gaming is still full of interesting new ideas, big and small. It would have been wonderful if there was more blockbuster news at E3, less next-gen news being suppressed by the major players in the industry and just more buzz. But, hey, this wasn't a show bereft of innovation and quality game ideas. Some of our favorites (not including the silly Wii U luge thing pictured above!):
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Letters From Death Row: Abdul Awkal, Who Was Supposed to Die Last Week
June 11th, 2012Top StoryLetters From Death Row: Abdul Awkal, Who Was Supposed to Die Last Week
Abdul Awkal was convicted of shooting and killing his wife and brother-in-law at a courthouse in Cleveland in 1992, in the midst of a custody battle over his daughter. He was scheduled to be executed on June 6. The day before he was scheduled to die, Ohio governor John Kasich granted him a two-week reprieve, citing doubts about Awkal's mental health—a psychiatrist hired by his defense called him "a severely mentally ill man" with "a chronic psychotic disorder." (Many of Awkal's writings can be found here.) His execution is now scheduled for June 20. Below, his full letter to us; click on each page to enlarge.
[Image by Jim Cooke] |
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