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Thursday, January 12, 2012

Dear Prudence: Schoolgirl Fantasy

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Dear Prudence
Schoolgirl Fantasy
My boyfriend wants me to call him "Daddy" during sex. Gross!
By Emily Yoffe
Posted Thursday, Jan 12, 2012, at 11:30 AM ET

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Dear Prudence,
I've been dating a guy for a couple of months and things were going great. I felt an emotional, physical, and mental connection with him that I had never felt before. Then I told him I wanted to make all his sexual fantasies come true and what happened next made me second-guess everything. The fantasy he described was to see me dressed up like a young girl wearing a short skirt and pigtails, sucking on a lollipop, and oozing innocence. I don't understand that fantasy, but I've seen enough porn to know it's common. We started acting it out, and he wanted me to call him "Daddy." He said things like, "You make Daddy feel so good" and "Don't tell Mommy." I am thoroughly freaked! He assured me that he does not want to have sex with young girls—that this is about role-playing dominance and innocence. Is this a normal fantasy, or is this a sign of pedophilia? Should I run away as fast as possible?

—Not Daddy's Little Girl

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